Becoming Father Quotes Novels & Stories

I also love how he used the term ‘person’ in his language to make it gender-neutral and sensitive and to debunk the gender stereotypes when it comes to being a parent. “Not being able to meet your expectations of what it means and what it takes to be a father does not mean I will not become a good one. Heck, I can be better than the both of you. Kung hindi man ako sasapat bilang lalaki para sa inyo, hindi hamak na mas mabuti naman akong tao...” he added. Napasinghap si Roma bago nagpatuloy sa pagsasalita. “Maraming salamat po sa pag-imbita sa amin.” He then turned to me. “Umuwi na tayo?”

“Paano ang trabaho ko? Saan ko 'to palalakihin? Paano ko 'to itataguyod, Sever? Hindi ko alam. Wala akong alam.” Bumuntonghininga siya. “Please, don't stress yourself. I am here. Tutulungan kita.” Umiling ako. “Hindi mo naman sperm 'to, eh.” Napamura siya. “Zalaria, what the fuck?” Tuluyan na akong umiyak. I promised to myself years ago that if I decide to have a child, I should make sure first that he or she will have a loving, caring, and responsible father. I will plan everything first to give my child a good life. Mararanasan niya dapat yung aruga at pagmamahal ng isang ama na hindi naibigay sa akin. Mararanasan dapat niya yung mga bagay na hindi ko naranasan sa tatay ko. Lalaki dapat si

He’s not the one to deal with postpartum and he’s not the one who will have his body ruined. In other word, kung ipapalaglag ng dalaga ang bata ay wala siyang magagawa. All he can do is sit at the corner and regret his life choices. Because this is the very first time he’s in this kind of situation. To learn that he’s going to be a father. And the idea of being a father excites him. Hindi niya maintindihan. “I’m… I’m sorry.” Humugot siya ng malalim na hininga. “I just…” I just want to experience what being a father feels like. “If you’re really worried about your babies, I can help you raise them. But…”

Ang aking boses ay bahagyang lumabas sa aking mga labi, isang mahinang bulong na naglalaman ng pinakamalaking lihim na hinding-hindi makakarating sa uniberso ng bilyonaryong atleta. "You are going to be a father... but you will never know," ang aking huling saad na siyang nag-iwan ng matinding tensyon at uncertainty sa aking buong pagkatao habang ang gabi ay patuloy na lumalalim sa gitna ng aking pag-iisa.

And I am lucky that God give me, to them. Kinausap nila ko about sa kompanya. And I am happy to tell them that our company is great and I asked my father for his permission cuz I want to expand the company and hired a lot of best and talented engineer all over world. "That's great. I am so proud of you, my son." father said after hearing my speech. He pat my shoulder and look at my mother. "I hope, bumuo kana rin ng sarili mong pamilya. You're going 25 this year. And you doesn't have any girlfriend? Are you gay?"my father asked seriously. I choked.

"Yes daddy, you're going to be a father again." Hindi ko na napigilan ang aking sariling umiyak ng malakas. Dahan-dahan akong lumuhod sa harap ng tiyan ng asawa ko. I can't believe na ganun kabilis sinagot ng Panginoon ang pinagdarasal ko. I'll be a father again and this time, I am here to support my wife. I am here to give her and my baby's craving. I am here to fulfill my long overdue promise to her.

“Mana ka kay Mommy lahat.” “Wala po akong daddy? Pero paano po mabubuo ang baby if walang daddy. Daddy will give sperm to Mommy para mabuo ang baby.” “Blessing ka sa akin ni God.” “Magic?” nakalabi na si Sevirious, halatang hindi naniniwala sa kanya. “Yes, Baby.” “But science said wala pong magic.” “Meron, Baby Sevi ko.” “You’re lying, Mommy. Why po?”

Huminga siya nang malalim at sumeryoso. “Hey!” aniya sa ex-boyfriend. “You’re going to be a father. Whatever’s left of your feelings for me, even if you can’t love Shaniah the way she wanted you to, at least love your child. You can do it.” At talaga namang gusto niyang bigyan ang sarili niya ng award sa words of wisdom na sumapi sa kanya. Napapailing pa rin ito nang palisin muli ang bakas ng luha sa mukha niya.

Himutok niyang gumagalaw ang mga panga dahil sa pagtatagis ng mga bagang. "Hindi ngayon ang oras para maliitin mo ang sarili mo. You're not just the best Dad to my son, you are an execellent Mayor." Nilipat ko sa hita niya ang kanan kong kamay. "Nagsimula na tayong ayusin kung anong nasira noon. Baka ang pagdating ni Sophie ay bahagi ng plano ng Diyos para mabuo ang pamilya natin. Doon lang muna tayo magfocus at huwag sa negatibong bagay. Kung magkakaproblema tayo dahil sa bata, magkasama nating harapin at lutasin. Hindi kita iiwan. Sa batas lang naman nagtapos 'yong pagiging asawa ko sa iyo, dito sa puso ko hindi iyon nabubura."

Marahil ay nahihiya dahil halos lahat yata ng mga taong naroon ay sa amin nakatingin. Nagpaalam rin silang lahat sa kanilang ama at nang lingunin ko si Anton ay nagpupunas na siya ng luha. "Anong nangyayari sa 'yo?" natatawang sabi ko. "It's my first time as a father, and I never expected it to be so rewarding. "Hindi ko maiwasang maiyak," he said, wiping away his tears. "I hope you'll stick with them even if you start your own family," mahina kong sabi.