Don't Be Too Hard On Yourself Novels & Stories

Bumuntong hininga ako at saka ngumiti sa kanya. " Pasensya kana! Nabigla lang ako! Alam ko naman na para din ito samin ni Alexa. Pero Sana naman hwag mong pabayaan ang sarili mo Alex.". Usal ko at saka naman syang ngumiti sakin.

Ngumiti ito ngunit hindi iyon umabot sa mga mata. “I just felt useless. Napakasimple na bagay ngunit hindi ko magawa. I can’t be weak, baby . . . Dalawa na kayong kailangan kong alagaan.” Napahilamos ito sa mukha, halatang dismayado sa sarili. “Honey . . . hindi mo naman kailangan madaliin ang lahat. Kung sa bagong silang na sanggol, nagsisimula ka pa lang na humakbang. Huwag mong biglaan. One step at a time.”

“At hindi mo kasalanan iyon.” Patuloy pa rin siyang humihikbi. Unti-unti kong iniangat ang kanyang mukha. Namumugto ang kanyang mga mata. Namumula ang kanyang ilong. Halatang pagod na pagod na siya. “Look at me.” Nag-atubili siyang tumingin. “Don't keep blaming yourself.” “Matagal nang nangyari ang lahat.” “At kahit ako...”

Since mukhang kailangan mo ng motivation today, may nahanap akong advice para sa'yo: If life closes a door, open it again. It's a door. That's how they work. Helpful, right? Isa pa: If Plan A doesn't work, relax. The alphabet has 25 more letters. Okay, seryoso na. Whatever is happening with your parents, please remember that not everything is within your control. Hindi mo kailangang ayusin lahat. At lalong hindi mo kailangang sisihin ang sarili mo sa mga bagay na wala ka namang kasalanan.

Bark when you see the circuits has no space for you to fit in. Hayaan mo na lang si Logan. Mas mabuting isipin mo rin ang sarili mo minsan. Don't be so selfless. Maging selfish ka rin minsan. Invalidate your feelings. Invalidate your opinions. Just go away. 'Yong hindi ka nila makikita. Find help as long as possible.

I am scared that I might open myself to others and once they're in… they will hurt and break me into pieces. "Don't be too hard on me or with yourself. Tao ka rin naman, you need to enjoy, you need to feel what is more in life. Hindi 'yong puro ganito na nakatago ka lang sa dilim." "Andito naman ako, I'll help you… lagi naman 'di ba? Hindi pa ba sapat 'yon para ituring mo ako na iba o 'di kaya kaibigan mo?"

"Hindi ako naging mabuting ate. Pinabayaan ko kayo. Hindi ako naging magandang ehemplo, kaya napariwara si Adler." "No, don't blame yourself. Pinili niyang maging ganoon. Marami siyang pagkakataon para magbago, pero mas ginusto niyang magpalamon sa galit. And it's not your fault. You did everything you can for him. It's not our fault."

Nakuyuko lang ako pero patuloy na nag-uunahan ang mga luha sa aking pisngi. "Be gentle with yourself, Ma'am. You only have you. If you will not love yourself, who else will? In this life, there are lessons that we need to learn the hard way. But it's okay, life is like that and we need to deal with it. Hindi naman natin pwedeng ipilit ang mga bagay na hindi naman talaga dapat pinipilit."

“I want to know where I come from. I’m having a hard time appreciate everything I have right now. Kasi pakiramdam ko ay palaging may kulang.” “And that’s normal.” Ngumiti ito sa kanya at hinaplos ang kanyang pisngi. “Don’t pressure yourself too much. Baka mas lalong hindi ka makaalala sa lagay na ‘yan. Let your mind remember slowly about your past. Don’t pressure, okay? Makakaalala ka rin. Don’t worry. You’re going to remember it.” That made her smile. Tipid siyang tumango rito at humugot ng malalim na hininga. “Yeah. You’re right.”

Adapt , adjust yourself, be comfortable around me para hindi na tayo mahirapan. ..yeah,para hindi na ko mahirapan kaka delay . He thought to himself.