Novelas y relatos de Quotes About People Judging You

“Eh wait lang kasi! Hindi ko kasi alam ‘tong nararamdaman ko! Hindi ako sanay na may kaibigan!” Napatingin siya muli sa akin na para bang hindi makapaniwala. “You? Hindi sanay magkaroon ng kaibigan? Impossible.” Napairap ako. “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” Ngumiwi siya. “Hindi ikaw ‘yung tipo ng tao na hindi magkakaroon ng kaibigan.” Umiling siya ng paulit-ulit na para bang hindi talaga kombinsido sa sinabi ko.

"H-hindi ba p-pwede mag-usap na malayo k-ka sa'kin? T-this is uncomfortable." "I hate people who disobey me, the people who pretend to be nice, people who dictate what I should or should not do, and lastly, those people who judge me even before knowing me," he replied instead. "And I can't believe that lahat ng iyon ay na sa'yo. Why are you disobeying me? Why do you pretend to be nice? Why are you dictating the things I should and I shouldn't do? And why the fuck do you judge me like you already knew who I really am?"

Kung hindi sa ugali ko, damit ko naman ang pinag-uusapan. Naglakad ako sa lobby at katulad pa rin ng dati, pinagtitinginan nanaman ako. I didn't mind though. Sanay na rin naman kasi ako. Sanay na akong pag-usapan. Iyan ang mahirap sa tao, they judge easily kahit hindi pa nila lubusang kilala. They easily believed in rumors and based themselves on what they see.

"Gwapo nga chismoso naman, hindi man lang nahiya, kalalaking tao." "Pero mukhang mabait naman. He apologize agad. Unlike others na kahit nagkabali bali na Yung buto mo, they did not even glance at you, at counted yung sinabi niyang ipapahospital daw ako.." "Sus mommy, Hindi mo pa Yun Kilala. it's too early to judge the person." "Kaya nag eh, don't judge him because we don't know him yet". "Anu man Ang pagkatao niya ma'am, I don't care anymore".

pagsisimula ko "Just like when we like someone, we can't tell them that we like them..and instead of telling them the truth..we just keep it a secret ". nakangiting sabi ko " Mayroong mga tao na ang dahilan nila is natatakot sila na baka mareject,mabusted o mafriend zone sila.. syempre masakit iyon diba?pero may mga tao kasing kahit mafriend zone man okay lang basta umamin siya ". i said

Pero sa mga salitang sinabi niya may unti-unting nabubuong kumpiyansa sa akin, “So if they stare, let them stare.” Tumahimik siya sandali. “If they whisper, let them whisper.” Napansin kong bahagyang humigpit ang hawak niya sa manibela. “If they judge, let them.” Matigas niyang sabi. Para bang wala siyang pakialam sa opinyon ng kahit sino sa mundong ito. “But don't ever lower your head.” Hindi ako umimik. Pinakinggan ko lang siya.

“Salamat po?” Tumawa siya. “Usually, women like you don’t last in this circle.” May kurot sa dibdib ko. “Ano po ang ibig ninyong sabihin?” “Pressure,” sagot niya, diretso. “Judgment. Comparison. Every move you make will be watched.” Alam ko. Ramdam ko na. Ngunit imbes na umatras, huminga ako nang malalim. “Then I’ll learn to walk carefully,” sabi ko.

At wala akong balak kilalanin siya kung hindi ko lang siya kailangang pakasalan para maresolba ang kinakaharap ko ngayon na problema. I don't want to be a hypocrite person like other people who say that what a person looks like is not important to them even if it is not true. Whether we admit it or not, there is still a part of us that we base on a person's appearance. Other people just don't want to admit it because maybe they don't want to be criticized. But the truth is, whether you look at it or not, you will still be judged because you are in a judgmental world—where all the things you've done right doesn't matter the moment you make a mistake even just once.

"Choose what you want to do not what the others want you to do. This is you. It is you. So the choices will always be you." It seems like all my what ifs and questions finally received an answers. I feel kinda relieved. "Do not be afraid of being judge. That's people's nature, to get your spine out. Life is cruel, but giving up will never be an answer," she said with a bright genuine smile on her face.

Bigla niya akong hinampas na lang na ikinatawa naming dalawa. "Puro ka naman biro dyan hon. Hindi ko akalain na mapagbiro ka pala. Napaka seryoso mo kasing tingnan lalo kapag nasa labas ka." ani nito. Hindi ko naman akalain na ganyan ang tingin niya sa akin. "Kaya nga sabi nila don't judge the book by it's cover. Kasi hindi natin alam ang totoong tao sa likod nun." sagot nito sa akin.