The Five Love Languages Book Mga Nobela at Kwento

Dahil kung hindi niya i-re-reject ang lalaking ‘yon, ako mismo ang maglalayo sa kanya. After our argument, I decided to cook for her. It was years ago when I learned my love language. It was act of service and physical touch with a little words of affirmation. I love to spoil the person that is special to me. May it be with cooking, driving for her, or anything. I want to make her feel important. I don't want her to think that I only want her body. Because that's not true. Yes, her beauty and sexiness attract me at first, but there is something deeper that makes me want to stay beside her.

Iba ako mainis minsan nanghahampas siya naman pag kinikilig. Humirit pa 'to bago nagpaalam. "Kaunting kaalaman lang. Ang love language ni Elle ay hampas kundi ay kagat. Ganyan siya magmahal, hindi siya gentle, may pagka hard... Sus, papatayin ko na tawag. Nanghihingi na ng lambing 'yang boyfriend mo. Elle, baka pagbalik mo dito sa susunod tatlo na kayo."

Tanong ko. "The five love languages. As someone unable to feel the care of my parents, I longed for care and affirmations. And also effort, kasi there are some relationships na 'pag nag-tagal na, wala na yung sweetness. Parang barkada na lang sila, and they don't put effort like they used to. I don't want that." sagot niya. Ang hirap naman i-reach ng gusto nito. Mahihirapan maging girlfriend nito.

Napahilamos na lang ako ng mukha nang mapagtanto ko ang lumabas na salita sa bibig ko. Tikim... oo, nakatikim naman talaga siya! Sa inis, sinabunutan ko siya. "Love," natatawang pigil niya sa akin. "Mahal mo talaga ako 'no?" Natigilan ako. "Ha? Hindi pa ba obvious?" Nag-angat siya ng tingin, nakangiti ng matamis. "Kasi imbes na physical touch ang love language mo, physical attack."

Sabi ko sa isip. Marahan akong tumango nang nakanguso, parang batang tinatanong ang gusto. Gusto ko talaga ang mga ganitong moments namin, gustong-gusto kong bini-baby at nilalambing n'ya. Ang sweet niya rin kasi at ang clingy. Physical touch at acts of service yata ang love language niya. Pero hindi rin naman nawawala sa mga dialogues namin ang words of affirmation n'ya. Pero usually, ay iyong acts of service ang madalas na napapansin ko.

Times two na tuloy ang kaba ko ngayon. "What's your favorite love language?" Biglang tanong nito. "Hmm, words of affirmation and physical touch." Mabilis kong sagot sa tanong nya. Umayos sya sa pagkakaupo at lumayo muna sakin ng kaunti. "Like this?" Magsasalita na sana ako pero bigla nya akong niyakap at hinalikan sa noo. "K-Kailangan ba talaga may sample huh?" My god, pinoy nga talaga sya.

Nakapilit kong saad habang ang aking katawan ay nanginginig pa. “Sabihin mo lang kung gusto mo. I would love to do it over and over again.” Ramdam ko ang pagpatong niya sa akin at binigkas ng pabulong ang mga katagang iyan. Ramdam na randam ko ang kaniyang mainiit at mabilis na paghinga. Amoy na amoy ko rin ang alak na kaniyang ininom. Binuka ko ang aking mga mata at agad ay nakasalubong ko ang kaniya. His eyes were full of lust and obsession. He’s looking at me the way he used to be.

“Being my wife is enough. Being with you and cuddling with you are enough to consider our first night as memorable things. We don’t need to always make love. Hindi lang ’yon ang love language, mahal.” Huminga nang malalim si Zein. “Nahulog na naman ako sa’yo.” Napangiti si Amos. “Just fall… because I'll catch you over and over again until we're old. I love you so much, Zein. Even if you feel losing, even if you feel that your love for me is fading, even if your anger dominates, I am here—constantly, back and forth… and over and over again loving you. Ngayon pa ba ako magsasawang mahalin ka kung kailan asawa na kita?”

Which is true. "Really? No other reasons? Hinanap Lang ng puso mo mahal mo na?" Narinig ko pa ang pagtawa niya. Shet. Ang cute talaga. "Oo, Ba't ba?" "Once you fall in love dont forget the reason why you love that person, because everything comes with a reason."

"Impossible. Tumugon ka sa halik ko. Like we always do. Kaya hindi malabong--" "Ano ba? Isn't it clear to you what I've said? Zoren, I tried to love you, but I found out na hanggang affection lang 'yon. And you know the difference between love and affection? That love is much higher than affection. I mean, I was attracted on you since I met you at hanggang doon lang 'yon.. Pero si Fifth, from the start, I knew in myself that I like him, at siya lang ang lalaking gugustuhin ko kahit magkamatayan man."