3 Months Rule After Breakup นิยาย & เรื่องราว

Sa mga babaeng katulad nila, hindi na magkakaroon ng anumang buffer time pagkatapos ng breakup maliban na lang kung talagang magpasya silang hindi na muling umibig. Kung hindi, mabilis silang lumipat sa ibang lalaki pagkatapos ng diborsyo o breakup. Ang mga lalaking gaya ni Jordan, na nananatiling tapat sa kanilang mga asawa at umiiwas sa pagiging masyadong malapit sa mga kaibigan ng di-kasekso, ay tunay na nakakaawa. Pagkatapos niyang pakasalan si Hailey, alam ng lahat na siya ay walang pera, at walang babae ang gustong sumubok at makipag-date sa kanya.

Muli siyang suminghab nang mapagtantong subrang hirap ng nangyayare sa buhay niya ngayon. Parang kailan lang ay maayos ang buhay niya bilang single mom, tapos ngayon ay biglang naging komplekado ang lahat. 3 years. It’s been 3 years since they broke up. Tatlong taon na niyang tinatakasan ang ama ng anak niya at tatlong taon na rin niyang tinatago kay Alexander na nagkaanak sila. Tatlong taon na niyang pinaniniwala ang sarili na hindi na sila muling magkikita.

Pero hindi ibig sabihin nun ay hahayaan kong maging totoo ang lahat ng ito. Tatlong buwan. ‘Yun ang napagkasunduan namin. At pagkatapos ng tatlong buwang iyon, mawawala na si Kiana, at babalik na ang buhay ko sa kung paano dapat ito maging. Kailangan.

"Pare, ang sungit talaga ng mahal mo kahit kailan." "Excuse me? Ikaw yata ang hindi pa kumakain, Yasser. Kung ano-anong kalokohan kasi ang sinasabi mo." nakataas-kilay na sabi niya. Imbes na sumagot ay inalis lang nito ang pagkakaakbay ni Yasser at parang hindi siya nakikita o nag-eexist sa paningin nito. Sabagay, ilang taon na din ba silang hindi nakikibuan after their breakup? Almost seven years?

may halong panunumbat ang mga salita ko sa kanya lalo na at marealize ko kung ano ang pinto niya “That is why I am asking you, Faith! Ipinagpalit mo na ba ako?” tanong muli ni Argus kaya naman napailing ako “Kung sakali ba, ano naman sayo, Argus? Wala na tayo kaya technically, single ako!” sagot ko sa kanya “Faith wala pa tayong isang linggong hiwalay! Hindi mo ba alam ang three-month rule?” Sa totoo lang, ang daming alam ni Argus! Ano ba yung three-month rule na yun? Sorry lang kasi hindi ko alam yun!

"Paanong hindi kayo pwede? My brother is crazy over you Ate, that's the first time I saw him literally following a woman everywhere, and literally doing everything." Ngumisi ako. Really? Maniniwala pa sana ako diyan kung hindi lang sana niya idinidate ang stepsister ko, o kung sino pa mang babae. But three months after our breakup, namataan na agad siyang may kasamang iba, so how should I believe that he's crazy over me?

A-Ang d-dami ko na agad nalaman. "A-About the contract?" tanging nasambit ko dahil hindi pa rin halos nagsi-sink in sa'kin lahat. "I'm talking about the three-month rule, I don't know where I got that. And about the personal contract you're saying, that's really true, I've been using that since then"

Sa loob ng tatlong taon ay hindi na niya sinubukan pang magmahal ulit dahil alam niya sa kanyang sarili na walang makakapantay o makakahigit sa naramdaman niya kay Rusty. She stared into his eyes and lovingly touched his face. “I thought I was over you but I realized, I never really was. I was just trying to deny things to myself. When the truth is...” She smiled. “I’m still in love with you after all these years.” She nodded slowly. “Yes, I broke the rule three years ago, Rusty. I also fell in love with you.” He smiled, happily. “My life had never been the same without you, Syler. I can’t afford to lose you again.” He hugged her tight. “Hindi ko na kaya.”

“Firs rule, you have to wear this ring,” I nod, and wear the ring in front of me, he smile, “Good, second rule, you cant tell this to anybody, I mean this deal, understood?” I nod again, “Third rule, for the span of six months, you can’t be associated to any other man, do you have a boyfriend?” “No, okay lang sakin yan, proceed,” sagot ko, kaya tumango siya. “Fourth rule, you can’t fall in love with me,” muntik na akong matawa dahil sa sinabi niya, pero pinigilan ko kasi baka maoffend sya sakin.

“Is this really you, Ivan? Pa’no ka nakakapagsalita nang ganito kahaba? I mean, pardon me, but... I’m a bit weirded out.” Ngumiti ako nang malapad. “You’re worth talking with, I guess?” Marahang naghiwalay ang kilay niya. Her gaze at me softened. From that moment, I knew I was screwed. I would lose something special that I held and fought for both irrationally and selfishly. “Are you flirting with me now?” tanong niya. “What do you think?” naaaliw kong tanong. Umiling siya. “I don’t know. But you shouldn’t flirt. There’s a three month rule that after a break up, you should wait for three months before pursuing someone.”