Setting Boundaries Quotes Mga Nobela at Kwento

Go for the person who treated you in a way you haven’t treated. We attract the same person who hurt us because it became natural for us. And we meet the someone who love us different, and treat us right, and we tend to push the person because we don’t used to that kind of treatment. If someone doesn’t respect your boundary, walk away; it’s a sign, a red flag. Do you think anger is bad? It’s a healthy one becuase you’ll be aware of your boundaries, and what to tolerate and is not. It feels better that self love is a prioritize and becoming normal.

“It’s Holiday break, Tim. My family personally wanted me to come. And besides, you’re not paying me any dime for me to prioritize it rather than my resting days. Give me a break, Tim. Let me know what you guys talked about. Thanks.” Agad niyang pinatay ang kanilang usapan. She’s kind… but doesn’t have enough patience to deal with bullshits in life. As much as possible, pinipilit niya ang sariling maging mabait. We don’t know what’s on their plate, so have to be kind at all times. But sometimes, people take advantage of those who are kind. Kaya naman nagse-set siya ng limit at boundaries.

Tuluyan ng isinuot ni Cain ang kaniyang helmet. _________________________________________________________________________ Magkasama ng naglalakad sina Zacky at Axel. Hindi nila alam kung saan ang tungo nila. "Strong woman don't have bad attitudes. They have standard, boundaries and limits. Don't be confuse." "I have boundaries, Axel. You know that."

“Wala akong pakialam kung OA ako. Basta’t ikaw ang usapan, I won’t share you.” Humagalpak siya ng tawa, pero halatang naaapektuhan. “Hindi mo kailangang mag-alala. Wala akong balak tumingin sa iba. Pero gusto ko rin na alam mong may boundaries. Hindi ako pwede basta mag-walk out sa clients.” “I know,” sagot ko. “Pero next time, kahit isang text lang. ‘Busy ako, huwag ka mag-alala.’ I won’t panic that much. Hindi 'yung parang nawala ka na lang bigla.”

“Eh di naman po ganoon ang nangyari. Nagkausap lang po kami, nag-open up lang.” “Pero basta linawin natin ito, ha. Hindi ako gusto ng ganoong eksena.” Tumango ako, naisip ko na sa mundo ni Julian, hindi pwede basta-basta ang mga bagay-bagay. May boundaries na kailangang sundin, lalo na pagdating sa personal. Pagkalabas ko ng office, napaisip ako kung gaano siya ka-protective. Hindi lang sa akin, kundi pati na rin sa mga tao sa paligid namin.

“Mahal na mahal ko siya. Hindi ko siya ipagpapalit. Lalung-lalo na sa ‘yo.” Kita ko ang pamumuo ng luha sa mga mata niya. May bahaging nakaramdam ng awa—dahil minsan din kaming may pinagsamahan—pero mas nangingibabaw ang galit at matinding pagod. At sa sandaling iyon, alam kong tama ang ginagawa ko. Kahit masakit. Kahit may masasaktan. “Respect my boundaries,” mariin kong sabi. “Kung hindi mo irerespeto ‘yan, hindi ko alam kung mapapatawad pa kita.”

“Labanan mo ako. Tumayo ka sa lugar mo. Kasi ‘yan ‘yung dahilan kung bakit ka pa rin nandito.” It should’ve sounded like a challenge. Pero hindi. Parang respeto. I exhaled. “You’re infuriating.” He smirked. “I’ve been called worse.” “I’m sure.” Tahimik. Two stubborn people, one impossible tension. Then I turned to leave. “If I’m going to keep working for you,” I said, not looking back, “then this—whatever this is—needs boundaries.” “Boundaries,” he echoed. “Understood.”

Aniya sabay yuko. "If you know the path you've chosen isn't going to be good for you, or if the future is uncertain, you may need to set a boundary to avoid being hurt badly. Setting a boundary isn't a crime; it's just like... a little prevention for you not to be drained by the agony." Payak akong ngumiti at isinandal ang likod ko sa upuan. "Nasaan ka no'ng mga panahong kailangan ko nang ganiyan advice?" Biro ko na ikina-angat ng tingin niya.

sabi niya, “hanggang saan ka handang umabot?” “Kahit saan,” sagot ko agad. “Kahit masira ang pangalan mo?” tanong niya. “Oo,” sagot ko. “Mas kaya kong mawala ang reputasyon ko kaysa sa anak ko.” Natahimik siya saglit. “Then you need to stand your ground.” “Paano?” tanong ko. “Set boundaries,” sagot niya. “Hindi mo siya pwedeng palaging saluhin. Kailangan niyang magdesisyon para sa sarili niya.”

Nabibigyan nila ito ng buhay. "I am not here to fight you," I said. She stared at me and down to the crest I was wearing. "A royalty? I see. Kaya pala malakas ang loob na maglakbay mag-isa," She said. So, most of the people here knew about us, huh? Akala ko ay hindi nila ako makikilala since nasa labas naman na sila ng boundary namin. "Hindi naman ako naghahanap ng gulo," I said.