Setting Boundaries Quotes Novels & Stories

Tanggapin ang lahat ng judgements nila, magpakumbaba, matutong humingi ng tawad at magpatawad sa sarili. Natuto rin akong tumingin sa paligid ko which helps me to realize and understand things which I should have understand and realize before. At dahil sa kalagayan ngayon ng best friend ko. Simula sa araw na ito, I will and I should put some boundaries and distance myself from Lander. I must know my limits as well as my place in Lander's life. Gagawin ko ito hindi dahil sa disappointment or what, kundi dahil nirerespeto ko ang best friend ko at ang magiging baby nila.

nanunubok na sabi ulit nito na siyang nagpapikit na sa kaniya. “Damn it, you misunderstood me again. Hindi ko alam kung kaedad ba kita or just playing on my nerves. I don't have any anger issues with them. What I am trying to say is, they might be hurt if they keep throwing trash into themselves. We have a different perspective and life journey, if they don't want to become miserable in this battle they must respect themselves first to become a respectable person too. We create boundaries by being one of those yet we can become the worst kind of nonsense if we let others ruin us in an unrespectable way,” depensa niyang hindi alam kung paano ipapaintindi ang punto rito.

“Huwag mong isipin na porke hindi ka pinagalitan ni Mr. Joseph ay makakaangat ka na. Huwag mong sabihin na hindi kita binalaan, pero hindi mo basta malalapitan ang kahanga-hangang lalaki na yun. Mas mabuting kalimutan mo na ang ideya na yun.” Hindi naging komportable si Chloe sa mga sinabi ni Ellie at may halong inis ang kaniyang sagot, “So, iniisip mong mapapalapit ako sa kaniya kapag binigyan ko siya ng Band-Aid? Ang dali naman nun.” “Pinapayuhan kita para sa kapakanan mo. Huwag kang lumabas sa boundaries mo.” “Salamat pero huwag kang mag-alala. Hindi ako interesado sa kaniya.”

“Hindi naman iyon ‘yung sasabihin ko eh. What I’m trying to say is, I appreciate your concern towards your friend.” “But you know your own responsibilities right?” “Of course I do. I’m just trying to help her.” “You won’t stop me right?” tanong ko. “I won’t. As long as you know your boundaries, as long as you won’t forget about your responsibilities, it’s completely fine. Wala rin naman akong magagawa eh.” Natawa ako sa sinabi niya. I’m so thankful that my parents are better than before. “Sing for her, Nico. Girls love it. Trust me.”

If being with me is just a heartache then I'm willing to runaway so that she will find her own medicine. May mga tao pala talaga na kahit gaano natin kagusto ay hindi pwede. May mga tao pala na gugustuhin natin ng matagal pero hindi tama. Loving someone have a boundaries and limitations and that's line is killing me.

“Hindi ka puwedeng basta na lang umalis sa buhay ko.” Tumaas nang bahagya ang kilay niya. “I’m not walking away. I’m setting boundaries.” “Boundaries?” napailing ako, napatawa ulit pero this time may halong pait. “After everything na ginawa ng pamilya namin para sa inyo?” Napahinto siya. Doon ko lang narealize kung ano ang nasabi ko pero huli na. Hindi na ako umatras.

“May gusto ka bang i-set na boundaries?” Parang nagulat siya sa tanong ko. “Me?” ulit niya. Tumango ako. “Yes. Hindi lang ako ang may karapatan mag-set ng limits.” Ilang segundo siyang nag-isip. “Just one,” sabi niya sa wakas. “Which is?” “Don’t shut me out,” sagot niya. “Kung may nararamdaman ka, kahit galit, kahit sakit… sabihin mo sa’kin.”

dagdag ko. Saglit siyang natahimik bago sumagot. “Then you set boundaries,” sabi niya. “Hindi porke mahal mo siya, ibibigay mo na ulit lahat agad. Protektahan mo muna sarili mo at ang baby mo.” Napayuko ako, iniisip ang mga sinabi niya. “Hindi ka mahina dahil nasaktan ka,” dagdag niya. “Pero magiging mahina ka kung hahayaan mong maulit ‘yon nang walang pagbabago.”

“Come on, Tahlia. We can handle one night.” “One night? Sa iisang kama?” Napahinto ako sa paglalakad, pero dahil nasa unahan namin ang kasambahay, napilitan akong muling humakbang. “We can set boundaries,” sagot niya na parang ang simple lang ng lahat. “We better,” mariing sagot ko.

Tinanggal niya muli ang kaniyang salamin at marahas na hinilot ang tulay ng kaniyang ilong. "I’m not being dramatic. I’m just being logical," he started, his gaze locking onto mine with an intensity that made my breath hitch. "You made it clear that my presence, my humor, and my touch make you uncomfortable. In business, when a partner sets a boundary, you respect it to avoid further liability. I’m treating you with the exact professional courtesy you demanded."